The Authoritarian Communicator Persona
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Commanding Respect, Earning Trust: A Guide for the Authoritarian Communicator
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From Commands to Conversations: Mastering Active Listening
a. Be Present: Put down your phone, silence distractions, and make eye contact with the speaker. This conveys genuine interest and encourages them to elaborate.
b. Ask Open-Ended Questions: Instead of yes/no questions, ask "Why?" or "How?" to encourage deeper conversation and understand their perspective.
c. Practice Reflective Listening: Summarize what you've heard to ensure understanding. Phrases like "So what you're saying is..." or "It sounds like..." demonstrate you're actively engaged.
02
The Art of Feedback: Recognizing Strengths and Providing Opportunities for Growth
a. Leveraging curiosity, ownership, and accountability: Ignite curiosity and ownership in your direct reports by asking about their career goals, then provide a balanced feedback session highlighting strengths and areas for growth. This empowers them to take charge of their development.
b. Focus on Behavior, not Personality: Instead of "You're always disorganized," say "This report could benefit from better organization."
c. Focus on the Future, not Dwelling on the Past: Provide feedback in a timely manner, and focus on how they can move forward instead of dwelling on past mistakes.
03
Transparency Breeds Trust: Demystifying Decisions
a. Explain the "Why" Behind Decisions: Don't just announce decisions. Explain the rationale, the goals you're trying to achieve, and the bigger picture. This fosters understanding and buy-in from your team.
b. Welcome Questions and Clarifications: Encourage open dialogue after making a decision. Allow team members to ask clarifying questions and address any concerns they may have.
c. Share Progress Updates: Keep your team informed about the progress of decisions and initiatives. This transparency demonstrates your commitment to open communication and inclusivity.